The ways to live in America

In “Two ways to belong in America” by Bharati Mukherjee there are two sisters who live in the same country but see themselves in different immigrant statuses in the United States. Bharati is the one who blends in more with the United States culture and is in acceptance to transforming herself. Mira on the other hand lives in the United States but wants to keep all her Indian traditions. She feels like this country has betrayed her because they were not being fair with the rules. They still remain close family and both have broken traditional rules from their home country for marrying other men besides the men her father’s chose for them. Overall Bharati seems to at least try to blend into her new country, but Mira differs because she wants to live in the United States as an expatriate.

            I have different views on what the sisters are going through. I personally feel like Mira needs to start adapting to the American culture because even though you are from another culture she should at least change her lifestyle a little more towards the American side. I think Bharati is trying more to live the American life and I think it’s good to at least try to fit in with the people you live around.

            Another way I feel about Mira is that if she really wanted to be Indian as much as she is she should have just stayed in the United States for her work or school for a short period of time, then she should have gone back. Don’t get me wrong I am Colombian and I would never let my culture die out within me even if I am here, but I am not here just to live as a resident; I want to live here as a citizen because just as this country has given me many opportunities, I feel like the least I can do is become part of the country and be proud of it. Obviously Mira does not appreciate the opportunities that this country has offered her because all she thinks is that this country has betrayed her.

            I just think Mira should start looking on the bright side and stop thinking about all the bad things she sees about this country. She should appreciate what has been offered to her and be happy about it instead of complaining all the time.